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writes:I have been with my husband for 4 years but it seems like more. His job keeps him away from home for days at a time. I understand that He needs to provide for our children and don't get me wrong i dont want him to be all over me but i do need quality time with him. He loves our 2 year old son much that he even sleeps in our bed. He feels guilty for being gone all the time. This means we have no intimacy whatsoever i have even started sleeping on the floor so they can be comfortable. This is killing our sex life. I have tried to tell him that i am not happy but he won't listen he says Im crazy. I cheated on him with two different men. One was a one night stand. The other is a friend with benefits that i have. Should I feel guilty for cheating. Should i tell my husband about it and end our relationship based on lies?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 March 2010):
Stop having affairs and go home to your husband and tell him how you feel. Open up and tell him that you need to spend more time with him. If nothing changes, then leave. The affairs will not fix anything, and will be more destructive in the long run. So talk to your husband. If nothing changes in say. six months, then decide whether you want to stay or not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2010): you hb is slogging , working to provide for you and your son and how do you repay him ....by fast becoming a lady of the night? i think you should quit while ahead..not while giving head!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2010): Your husband's career/ethic has good points and bad points.
You haven't been rejecting the benefits of his good points.
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reader, kayla20 +, writes (16 March 2010):
 people cheat when something is lacking in a relationship such as affection however if i was you id naturally feel guilty about this but i wouldnt end my relationship based on this fact id try and work out my problems with my partner explain that you need intamacy and affection and your not receiving that whilst his gone and if it continues you cant see a future with him
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