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writes:Hi. There's this girl I'm starting to fall for and she's given me strong signs that she wants me to, like text messages saying she loves me and misses me, but she already has a boyfriend and she's recently left comments on his Myspace saying she loves him so I'm confused about whether she really wants me or if I'm gonna be left heartbroken. I really wanna be with her and she knows this so should I just wait and see what happens between them and hope they break up or should i ask her out which would mean she'd have to choose between us right away? Thank you :]
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reader, flower girl +, writes (2 July 2007):
 Just back off and wait but stop the contact, she knows you like her, the ball is in her court if she likes you as much as she has told you she does, she will leave the person she is with and come get you.
Take care.xx.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (2 July 2007):
 If I were you, I would wait. Just don't wait for too long.
Cheer up.
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reader, auntiebunny +, writes (2 July 2007):
 This girl doesn't sound nice enough to have two men fighting over her, it's a horrible thing to play people around the way she is you & her boyfriend. but obviously she has something else you wouldn't feel so strongly about her. i don't really think you should ask her to choose- this might lead her to panic and make the wrong decision. she probably already knows you like her, and obviously she likes you too, so i think the best thing you can do is stop the texting and flirting, stop the myspace-stalking no matter how tempting it is, let her know that you're not her bit on the side, and her treatment of both of you is wrong. if she wants to be with you she will find you, but don't be a doormat. i hope she has the dignity to do the right thing. good luck.
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