Should I ask her to choose?
Q. Hi. There's this girl I'm starting to fall for and she's given me strong signs that she wants me to, like text messages saying she loves me and misses me, but she already has a boyfriend and she's recently left comments on his Myspace saying she ...
A. 2 July 2007: This girl doesn't sound nice enough to have two men fighting over her, it's a horrible thing to play people around the way she is you & her boyfriend. but obviously she has something else you wouldn't feel so strongly about her. i don't really think ... (read in full...)
I don't think I'm in love with my husband and want my lover back...what should I do?
Q. confused about my marriage and my lover i had an affair with a guy at work whose fancied me for 3 years. Cant explain how it all started but we ended up telling eachother how we felt about one another, we kissed, spent the night together. nothin...
A. 10 May 2006: Not to sound harsh but i think the victims in this story are your husband and your lover's fiancee. I'm sure (well i hope) neither of you meant to hurt them but I'm sure neither of them deserve this amount of indecision!! Even if this man is not the ... (read in full...)
Don't have feelings for my boyfriend any more. Should I dump him or not?
Q. I liked this boy. He was really nice and I fanced him about 7 out of 10. He ased me out once and I said no. After that I flirted with him, and his friend told me that he was going to ask me out again, and I had to say yes. I felt guilty because this ...
A. 9 August 2005: This boy obviously really likes you, and as you can't return these feelings I think it would be cruel to keep it going any longer. Even if you were ready to have sex, you shouldn't sleep with anyone you have luke-warm feelings for anyway, it's not ... (read in full...)
She's taking her ex to the wedding. Is this a red flag?
Q. My girlfriend is attending a wedding with her ex boyfriend without me. She feels too uncomfortable to include me. What should I be thinking?...
A. 2 August 2005: I wouldn't even waste time thinking!How horrible for you. Have you any idea where this discomfort stems from? If not then I can see no excuse for this behaviour and would find it completely unforgivable.I wish I could see a positive solution, but ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend broke up with me because she can't face coming out to her family...
Q. My girlfriend of three years and I just broke up last night. She is not out and this has caused a lot of heartache in our relationship. We have broken up over this before, but this time it is different. She says that she loves me and wants to ...
A. 2 August 2005: You don't say how old you and your girlfriend are, so I'm presuming she still lives at home. choosing between your family and an unnaccepted lover or in this case, sexual preference can be a near impossible decision,so i wouldn't advise making any ... (read in full...)
I love him, but he wants to explore other options while he's at college...
Q. I met the fella of my dreams. He is 18 and I am 24. He starts college on August 1st and now decides he wants to go and be free while he is school to do whatever he wants. He wants us to just be friends and let our relationship grow. I don't ha...
A. 2 August 2005: If you're the only woman for him then why does he feel the need to explore other 'options'?- I presume by this he means 'explore other women' to put it crudely. It seems as though this guy wants the best of both worlds and you're not really doing ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with this girl, but she gives the impression she just can't be bothered...
Q. I have been seeing a girl for 3 months and have fallen deeply in love, but she has a lot of problems. She has said that she wants to be with me but can't get her head around it at the minute and to give her some space. This is driving me insane as I ...
A. 1 August 2005: I know it's hard but if she says she wants space you should probably do what the girl says! If you appear to be waiting there for the second she decides she does want you it'll be easier for her to mess you around. I wouldn't exactly suggest you act ... (read in full...)
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