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*3puremage1
writes:I have an obsessive behavior which means I can somehow force myself to do something that I do not want to do and if I want something, I would do anything to have it.This obsessive behavior is both benefiting and annoying because my obsessive behavior does create a problem on other people. For example, I love a girl who used to be my best friend and somehow she said I am obsess with her. This may be true because some of her friends think she is a very self center person and I am not obsess with her. On the other hand, this obsessive behavior is helping me a lot in academics and sports simply because it does not allow me to give up. I have consult advises from my cognitive behavioral therapist and she said this behavior is not a big deal because it is not a disorder yet. I am not sure shall I apologize to the girl for my obsessive behavior.
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reader, 83puremage1 +, writes (15 July 2011):
83puremage1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for everyone's advise. I thin is best for me to leave it because I don't want her to think I am obsess with her.
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reader, Orbiter +, writes (15 July 2011):
Unless you've done something that is actually insulting and not just purely obsessive then no, I wouldn't bother as it will only draw attention to your behaviour and maybe even reinforce her ideas about you.
Just backing off and showing her you're not as obsessive as she thought will probably help more.
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