A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend was invited to his ex-fiance's wedding should he attend? We both know she has feelings for him still.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): There is a twisted part of my mind that makes me think she wants your fella to see her in her wedding dress (the most beautiful day of many womens life). Also to say "look what you gave up". I would feel uncomfortable on my wedding day seeing an ex at all of any description let alone one I still had feelings for. Out of respect for the groom your bloke should stay away. Her husband to be probably knows your boyfriend is still on the scene for his bride to be - emotionally that is - and imagine how that will hurt him. No - I don't like the sound of it.
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female
reader, hlskitten +, writes (7 December 2008):
If she still has feelings for him, and is getting married, its likely to be a very short marriage, so no, I wouldn't bother wasting money on a toaster and going, myself.
C xxxxxx
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reader, Miami Ad-Vice +, writes (7 December 2008):
No way! She could use the wedding to make him regret not being with her.
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female
reader, sparkleworks +, writes (7 December 2008):
Why not? It's her wedding day, so I doubt her feelings for a former boyfriend are going to be on the forefront of her mind. In fact her inviting him may have been a way for her to achieve closure for herself and let both him and herself know that she's moved on, and may even be willing to form a friendship. Plus, you'll be with him! It might turn out to be a great day for all of you.
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