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Should a girl always breathe in a rythmic way or scream when she orgasms?

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Question - (20 May 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 21 May 2010)
A female Kenya age 36-40, anonymous writes:

when a girl cums does she breathe in a rythimic way or screams?and is it a must for every girl to behave this way?and if she doesnt what should she do?

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (21 May 2010):

person12345 agony auntThere aren't just some women like you, I'd say MOST are like you. Though making some noise usually makes for a better more uninhibited orgasm. If your bf wants noise though, why don't you be more vocal occasionally for him? I love when my boyfriend acts a little and is super noisy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2010):

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thanks guys for your answer..i was quite worried..because my new boyfriend kept asking in amazement...if i dont scream or breathe in a rythmic manner when i cum.....i was so afraid i might be the odd one out...am glad there are ladies like me out there.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010):

Don't act. It's clearly artificial and off puttish to your partner.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (20 May 2010):

person12345 agony auntWell girls in porn scream all the time, but most girls don't in real life I think. The rhythmic breathing is sometimes because most women need a rhythm to orgasm, like putting themselves in an orgasm trance. Don't worry so much about it, you shouldn't be thinking when you orgasm anyways!

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (20 May 2010):

dirtball agony auntYup, no rules about it, just do your thing. Here is one thing that I've found though. Breathing and maybe some moaning can actually help bring you to orgasm. Focus on the feeling and just let your breathing match the feeeling you're having. It's hard to explain but I've found that I can have very intense orgasms by using this method.

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A male reader, RyanS United Kingdom +, writes (20 May 2010):

RyanS agony auntwell as i see it, the screaming girl image has been created by porn movies because the move can't duplicate real life breathing and touching that happens. noise is not necessary for great sex.

so you do whatever you feel like but don't make too much noise unless you are in some farmhouse!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010):

There is no rule for the noises a girl should make. You may scream/moan/breathe heavily/talk/grunt or do whatever you like. Some girls don't make any noise at all. Once you become more comfortable having sex then it should be an impulse, doing whatever works as an outlet for your pleasure.

If you feel self-conscious I would suggest not doing anything too extreme, maybe just heavy breathing and a bit of moaning. From what men have told me they don't like it when girls make no noise at all because it seems like they're not enjoying it.

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