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writes:alright well iv been dating this girl for like only 2 weeks now...and we both live in a residence at our college. Well pretty much since the first day we met she is soooo clingy..we always have to be holding hands, hugging, rubbing or whatever the hell she has to do..and we always have to kiss its so anoyingggg i cant stand it..my friends tell me they're pissed off cuz all me and my gf do around them is make out...and shes so whiney too ugh!!! im starting to get annoyed of her voice too jesus...like i got stoned and was just gunna chill out then she came in and was all over me, it was a huge buzz kill and it always happens...she never leaves my room either. from about 7pm-3am shes in my room every night...i cant even do homework anymore...god damnit i just dont know what to do...should i break up with her? or should i just tell her i need some space...? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (1 November 2008):
I think you have to tell her that you need some space.
You need to see your friends and you need to do homework. Do it nicely though, just explain that you are feeling a bit smothered.
If she backs off and things get better then great, but if she doesn't then I think you have to split up with her as you already sound like you don't like her.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, shna  +, writes (1 November 2008):
 well firstly i think you need to ask yourself do you even like her that much you say she is clingy and whiney . . . if you can find so many negative things about her that annoy you you shouldnt even have to ask the question of weather you should be together ??
on the other hand if you do really like her and you want to make it work you should tell her sooner then later or else your just going to keep digging your self a bigger hole until you explode .
be nice and let her know you are still interested but you just want some space to be able to do simple things like spend time with your mates and do your homework its not much to ask
shna x x
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reader, epifanatical  +, writes (1 November 2008):
 You need to tell her pretty quickly, before she starts to get more comfy with you. I have a sneakin suspicion that she has a feelin you are feeling this way, hence the clinginess.
So, just be honest with her, tell her how much its annoying you, and that you want it to stop, perhaps after you tell her, (after the initial sting) she will be understanding a lil more and allow you to have time on your own more, and not be so in your face all the time.. :)
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reader, Reebe +, writes (1 November 2008):
 You know the answer to this, you seem pretty fed up with it all. After 2 weeks she does seem a bit full on.
Talk to her and tell her that you feel a bit smothered and you need time on your own to do your homework, study and spend time with you mates.
She obviously likes you and she may not even realise she is being like this, if you haven't told her then she can't do anything about it.
If she is still too much then you'll have to move on.
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