A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I like my best friend a lot. He knows how I feel and nothing had been done. I am afraid that he doesn't like me like that. But we have shared a kiss. He said he thought he was kissing his ex-wife thats why he kissed me. During that kiss we cuddled. I dont see how he thought he was kissing his ex-wife. I wish he could tell me the exact reason why he kissed. I am tired of his millions of answers why he kissed me.I am very confused. Ever sinced we kissed he has been very distant and dont want to talk about it. He basically drops the conversation. Also, one day he asked me to show him my tits and of course I showed him three times that night. And he also was rubbing them. Then one day he asked me to give him oral sex and I said no because I was afraid. Everyday we talk I just want to have him to myself. I am jealous over his other girls that are his friends and I am almost possesive. I am so irritated about everything and confused. I dont know if he likes me or if I am his rebound girl.We even work together and he used to flirt alot. By touching each other in different spots. And now he touches another girl that way. I even think he basically lost interest. Also, when we ride together sometimes he tells me to duck down while we are riding together like he is embarrassed of me.We work as drivers and he use to not care but now he does. What's up with that. Everyday I pray that we could be girlfriend and boyfriend. I hope someone could tell me what I should do and hope someone could tell me if he actually likes me????
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (1 November 2008):
 I think this guy is just getting you to kiss him etc because he fancies a kiss not because it's you. I'm sorry to be so blunt, but he is not treating you with much respect and your letting him.
Don't let yourself kiss him or anything else again, if he asks why then tell him that your not interested unless it was in a relationship.
He sounds like he doesn't want a relationship, he wasnts to have no strings.
He might not have told you this but his actions have.
Move on and find someone who can love you the way you deserve, this guy certainly won't.
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