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writes:Just found out that my daughter is having a relationship with her partners father. How the hell are we going to explain to her two year old daughter that mummies new boyfriend is her Grandad. Just can't get my head around this, has anyone else had this experience.What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2007): how u gonna explain to his son that his dad is sleeping with his girlfriend this will tear his family apart and he will never talk to his dad again
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reader, TaylorChu  +, writes (9 July 2007):
 Wow, I do not agree with the replies given to this question. You brought your daughter up better than this, yes? It seems incestous to be with a man AND his father even if there is no marriage or vows made or the previous relationship has ended. Same family sperm is being passed around into your daughter. It is gross in my opinion. Since the little one is only two years old DO NOT get her involved with adult matters. It isnt her place. If she knew the older man by some title before you leave it as that. She doesnt need to be involved in adult sexual matters in anyway.I'd seriously talk to my daughter and her first boyfriend about the situation. A family is being messed with and your grand baby unfortunately may have to grow up in a VERY skewed home and family relationship.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (8 July 2007):
 I'm afraid you're not exactly concerned with this issue being legal or not. Your problem is, it is not correct.
I don't think there is anything you can do about this. Just hope things don't get out of control when the boyfriend finally finds out. Now that will be serious problems.
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reader, jmk +, writes (8 July 2007):
jmk is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you to you both for your replies, and if she is happy that is all I can ask for.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2007): It's your daughter's life and if she wants to be with her boyfriend's father then that's up to her. It's not your job to tell her child about it so leave her to make her own mistakes.
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reader, DIE-romantic.  +, writes (8 July 2007):
 I agree with flower girl really, its not illegal and shes at the age where she can do what she wants. Although i can understand how hard it is, so i also agree that she should tell her daughter, as really its her own mess. But if she is happy, then also like flower girl said what can you do?
Not alot im afraid.
Take care and i hope it works out okay.
xxxx
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reader, flower girl +, writes (8 July 2007):
 Unfortunately there is nothing illegal about it so if thats who she is happy with and thats what she wants, what can you do.
It should not be your place to have to explain this to her child anyway, so i would leave that to her to explain.
Take care.xx.
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