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*ylan McK
writes:My girlfriend, and lead singer of my band, has cheated on me 6 times. I still love her, im hopeless like this. She doesn't know i know, but, what do i do?I really love her, and i just blame myself for not always being there for her. Should i tell her i know, should i dump her? I really don't want to.
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reader, dunlu  +, writes (16 February 2011):
 the young lady can not be trusted dear.I have seen the age indicated and your both not old enough to be going through that type of thing,you can do much better.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (7 February 2011):
 I know how you feel. I had a gf a while ago who was really bad for me and I couldn't let it go. She actually ended up breaking up with me when I should have done it months in advance. You love her but she can't act like this and expect keep a bf. She won't learn anything in life because she thinks that she got away with it. I'm not saying stop loving her but breaking up with her is tough love and she'll realize that she can't be like that if she wants to be with you. Maybe then she will grow up and you two can give it another go. People deserve a second chance but only if they are willing to learn from the first mistake. She needs her space to learn the hard way.
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reader, Dylan McK +, writes (7 February 2011):
Dylan McK is verified as being by the original poster of the question Im 16, not much of a difference, i know.
I really will find it hard to do this, i mean, i know i can trust my sources, but i don't want to have to get her out of my life, i really love her y'know.
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reader, LovelessAct1  +, writes (7 February 2011):
Its obvious she neither loves you nor respects you. If she did, she wouldn't behave this way. I know its not what you want, but you have to see that this relationship is not good for you. She is not good for you.
I highly recommend ending it. You can choose to tell her you know about the cheating or not before hand, but either way she needs to be out of your life.
Best of luck.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (7 February 2011):
Man, I'm telling you this in all seriousness. Dump that girl! Your age says 13-15, you are in no way commited to this girl and for her to do this to you she is basically thinking that you are her bitch. Sorry for the language but that is how I see it. You need a fun gf who will actually have respect for you.
She doesn't know that you know? I would tell her that it is over because you know that she cheated. Although who are your sources, and are they trust worthy because she may have done none of it. If they are then end it before you lose respect from everyone else too and be prepared for her to say that she never did which is why I am stressing that you know for sure.
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reader, BeccaLeigh +, writes (7 February 2011):
If she has cheated on you that many times, it's time to say goodbye. If she really cared about you, it wouldn't happen. I know it's rough to hear, but it's the truth. Believe it r not, there's good people out there, and you'll find one eventually.
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