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Why does an ex still get jealous and act possesive?

Q.   Hi All, Just a quick question. My ex ended the relationship some time back - but he still gets jealous and acts possesive with me. eg: wants to know why I did'nt call straight back, still texts and calls every couple of weks, still acts possesive It ...

A.   7 February 2011: If an ex is trying to contact you that often, the he probabl still has feelings for you. Perhaps try talking to him about it?... (read in full...)

She's cheated on my 6 times now and doesn't know I know...

Q.   My girlfriend, and lead singer of my band, has cheated on me 6 times. I still love her, im hopeless like this. She doesn't know i know, but, what do i do? I really love her, and i just blame myself for not always being there for her. Should i tell h...

A.   7 February 2011: If she has cheated on you that many times, it's time to say goodbye. If she really cared about you, it wouldn't happen. I know it's rough to hear, but it's the truth. Believe it r not, there's good people out there, and you'll find one eventually.... (read in full...)

Girls on his phone???

Q.   I recently got into a relationship with someone who lives quite far away from me at least a one hour car journey. we get on so well and we really like eachother. we were out the other day and he was texting I asked him who he was texting and before ...

A.   7 February 2011: It looks like your boyfriend is a flirt. It could be harmless, but then again, it could easily blossom into full on infidelity. Keep an eye on it, and if it keeps happening or gets worse, he's probably not the guy for you. ... (read in full...)

Strip shows... are they okay?

Q.   Hello guys, do u think is it ok for the guys while they are in a relationship and want to go strip show club either with you or his friends and let u go with your female friends too? and also i asked him if he go to striptease club before and...

A.   7 February 2011: If a guy is going to a strip club while in a relationship, it's unfair to his girlfriend. If he really loved her, he wouldn't want to look at other women that way. His girlfriend would feel like he was being compared to those other women, which is ... (read in full...)

I'm such a good boyfriend, so why is she all quiet with me?

Q.   My girlfriend has been giving me short answers and not really talking to me. This morning we were doing just fine, she went and got drunk last night and I didn't really think to care much of it. I deleted my Face Books and stuff, and she's kind of ...

A.   7 February 2011: If she's being distant, she either is going through a hard time and needs you more than ever, or else she isn't really into your relationship as much as you are. Just wait it out, and let her know you're there for her, and if she's not into the ... (read in full...)

I'm confused as to my sexual orientation... am I bi???

Q.   Well im a female, and im straight, and im very attracted to guys. When i was younger i had a incident where i made out with one of my best friends. But from then on i never looked at woman with an interest. However, i have a friend who i find to be ...

A.   7 February 2011: My answer to this is no. If you were looking at a lot of girls this way, I would consider you bi, but don't sweat it, people go through phases like this. And even if it's not a phase, no big deal. You are who you are, so be proud of that.... (read in full...)

How to comfort my best friend?

Q.   My best friend is 4 months pregnant and her boyfriend doesn't want the kid, he wants to put it up for adoption but she wants to keep it. she's very upset and crying about it. How should I comfort her ? ...

A.   7 February 2011: If she doesn't want to put it up or adoption she has every right o keep it, and there's nothing he can do about it. This is a really tough situation to go through, and the most you can do is just make sure she knows that you're there do her and will ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is scared to have sex! Any advice?

Q.   I asked my girlfriend to have sex with me last night but she said she was scared and she didnt want to she was afraid it would hurt. its her first time and first time for me too. Any advice?...

A.   7 February 2011: If she's scared, then that means she's not ready. You just have to wait for the right time, and you'll know when it happens. (: ... (read in full...)

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