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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok, my ex is back with her baby's daddy. Yet she told me she wishes she was with me, and was even gonna move out to be with me again. Then she just up and said she is staying with him. He just had his 3rd child, by the third different woman, 3 weeks ago. He is 21. I told her good luck and good bye. Now she called me yesterday and when I asked what was wrong, she said that she would never call back if it was going to be that way. She texted back and said she just wondered how I was. Does she miss me? Is there hope? Just move on?
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reader, human_male  +, writes (8 February 2013):
 Oh god man move on. Don't take any more calls from her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2013): If you still have feelings for her and she and there is no chance of her getting back together with you then you should just move otherwise it will just mess with your head. If you do still like her then you need to ask her whether she wants to get back together and if not then you should tell her that you need to move on.Hope this helps.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (8 February 2013):
 I think she is playing games with you and she is too immature to really know what she wants.
However 1 thing you can be sure of - she has a child with this other man, and she has feelings for the other man. Having a child with someone creates a bond that will last a liftime, so if you combine this bond with existing feelings (she clearly loves him otherwise she wouldnt go back to him) then you get a situation where you are the only person that is going to get hurt here.
She is probably struggling with the decision of trying to be a family with the baby's father, or being with you (or someone else potentially). However the fact she is so young just shows she isnt emotionally mature enough to make these kinds of decisions, girls her age shouldnt be mothers for these exact reasons.
The best thing you can do is ask her not to contact you again and move on - her baby's father is going to be in her life forever, so it isnt worth holding onto hope that she might come back because she is always going to have him in her life, which means you will never be sure that she will be able to be 100% faithful to you.
She isnt worth the drama I'm afraid, there are plenty more girls out there with less baggage and less drama.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (8 February 2013):
 I agree with Sageoldguy1465: you would do better to forget this woman.........she made her bed (made her choice) in going back to her ex, knowing the kind of man he is, now let her lie in it (her "bed", that is).
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (8 February 2013):
 I "read" your submittal as an 8-line question with a lifetime of drama in it..... I suggest that you move on, forget this girl and live a comfortable life without her.....
Good luck...
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