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writes:Ok this is kind of complicated, maybe is lost maybe is still real love . I was Dating my boyfriend for About 3 years we were deply in love And were getting Maried, but i started having doubt About everything so arguments got in The way And a week before The wedding i broke up with him , now after that we got toghder again because we were sure we loved each other but by that time i hurt him so i guess he felt betraited . After like 4 MontH he got a new girlfriend wich help him out alot financialy so of course he was happy about that. After a year being with her he cheated on her with me he wanted to get togheder but I knew he didn't trust me and people started talking and saying negative things about me and that influent in him . So it's been almost 4 years we are not togheder he is still with the same girl but for some reason it dont matte if its a negative concern he's girl is always getting in contact with me saying how I get between them an idonnt let them be happy but that's not true at all .. She actually got in contact with me around 5 month ago saying how he told her he tough I called him but it was he's mistake because it did not call him at all he actually call me after that and apologize saying he sorry and that for someone reason he's friend call him and said someone wanted to speak with him and he assume is me. Now they been togheder for 4 years and they have no family have yet not moved togheder or engaged !! Now Im glad if he's happy but based from what I said .. Do you think he still loves me and he's not with me because of what happen or I'm just feeling lost and maybe I'm taking things to serious and should stop thinking about what iffs ... I still love him!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2013): Forget him...forget him....forget him...
Wait his the one tell you he still love you...
And while waiting be busy searching to replace him...if you can find a replacement before he can tell you he still love you...well it his lost....
good luck dear
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reader, Eli_B80 +, writes (8 February 2013):
At this point I would come right out to him and let him know how you feel...If you do not, than you will never know if you have a chance with him again...Its not good to be sitting around and thinking about the "what-if's", if you are not brave and approach the issue dead on, then you will regret never trying to ask him about it...
Just do it!!!...If he doesn't love you anymore, than yes it will hurt, but at least you will know, then u can try and move on with your life...
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (8 February 2013):
 If he loved you he would be with you.
he's not with you that alone tells you enough...
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