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She thinks she is pregnant but we always use condoms, I'm nervous, any help?

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Question - (19 March 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 19 March 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi i am 18 years old and just started having sex a couple of months ago with condoms but my girlfirend is saying that her period has been late three weeks and her boobs hurt and she is urinating a lot and she thinks she is pregnant but we always use condoms and im nervous any help?

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A female reader, pandabird  +, writes (19 March 2010):

pandabird agony auntYou can always go to the doctors, and they will give her a pregnancy test for free; the added benefit of this is that you've both got someone there to talk to straight after.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (19 March 2010):

Well, first of all, she needs to get tested. That's he very first thing that needs to be done. I would recommend that she gets tested. Condoms are 97-98% effective, so there is always a small chance of pregnancy if it goes wrong. She needs to get tested.

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A female reader, LilPixie United Kingdom +, writes (19 March 2010):

LilPixie agony auntA condom can easily break without you noticing. Also periods can be delayed through stress. If she is already 3 weeks late she should take a pregnancy test. There is no need for either of you to stress over it when you don't even know for sure

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (19 March 2010):

Honeygirl agony auntHun, there is always a possibility of falling pregnant even with contaceptives. Go buy a home pregnancy test for your gf so that you and her can know for sure whether she is pregnant or not.

With the symptoms you describe, the sore breasts, frequent urination and late period it does sound like pregnancy but rather get her to take a test to be sure.

Once you have an answer then you can either heave a sigh of relief if she isnt - or start making plans if she is.

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A male reader, Kenj United Kingdom +, writes (19 March 2010):

Kenj agony auntAsk her to take a test to know for sure. There are other reasons for her symptoms.

Condoms can break or slip off it's not impossible, read the instruction leflet with them they are not 100% safe.

The other possiblilty is she is pregnant is shes gone with another guy.

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