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writes:Hi my friend told me about this site and I’m new at this and I have a question and hope you can help me. Two days ago I was in the back seat with my boyfriend kissing and so things got heated. We touched each other and then with his hand he went down on me and played with me (can’t find a more appropriate word than fingered you know). Everything was fine until all of the sudden I felt him like almost touching the wall of my stomach or something. It kinda hurt. I bleeded a little and I wasn’t on my period. Last night we were talking about it and he said he had his whole hand up to his wrist in me! I don’t believe him, is that possible? I’ve never heard of that, plus I’ve never had kids so I don’t know if it can even happen. Is that dangerous? Could he have broken something? Will I be able to have kids now? I don’t have my period till the first and im not in pain, but should I go to the doctor? I feel he’s making it up, but im still scared. If you can help me I’d greatly appreciate it!
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reader, bleuginger  +, writes (24 June 2007):
I thought it was impossible but after reading some answers by some "professional", it really existed. It's disgusting! Please don't ever let him do it to you ever again dear! And please see a doctor just in case...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2007): Hi love,
Yes this is possible as stina said (its called fisting) and in my veiw this was totally disrespectfull at the very least at doing this to you, it must have hurt hunny and if you did bleed after then it most certainly could have caused some damage please book an ap with your doc to get checked out, and he needs to be checked out to as this is so dangerous. He wouldnt be my boyfriend anymore to do that love without telling you what he was thinking as he must have had an idea of what he was up to before he did it is just plain and simply nasty again to say the least, all sorts of injury can happen so you go to your doc and keep away from this man lots of love MANDY XXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2007): It is possible, but I think it it did happen, & you're not loose (if no one has ever done that before) then I think it would be a lot more painful for you. Your vagina would have been really stretched out, and it may even tear. Maybe he put his hand up there, and tried "fisting" you as it's called. I think if he did try that without asking you, and without you having it done before, that is showing total disrespect. I know a woman who's husband did that to her, and she had to go to the emergency room b/c her insides got torn. So what you need to be thinking about is wether you want to be with someone that sick minded & disrespectful of you & your body. If my man did that without telling me, I'd kill him. If you feel like your stretched out & uncomfortable, then you should go get checked. It can definitely damage your insides & your cervix whixh can damage your chances of being able to carry a child. However if he did that much damage you would be in pain.
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reader, stina +, writes (22 June 2007):
 Hello Anonymous,
It's possible (I'm sure you've heard of fisting, right? Well, that's what this is...one form, anyway.) and it's extremely dangerous. If he really did this, don't let him do it again. I used to work as a forensic photographer and have developed photos of individuals who have been killed this way. (Organs can be ruptured.) Do not let him do this again. If you feel like something is not quite right inside, then I definitly recommend going to have a check up.
Take care.
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