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anonymous
writes:Am i pathetic for being hung up on the same girl? She has rejected me about a week ago, but i cant seem to get over her! She is constant texting me or calling me. She wont leave me alone to deal with my rejection. we are good friends, but i like to be left alone for a little while after rejection. Sometimes she flirts with me clearly, other times its subtle, and other times, she completely ignores me. What should i do? how do i get over her? Should i ask her to the upcoming school dance? I am really confused and need some advice, any help?
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reader, TaylorChu +, writes (12 September 2007):
 Tell her: I need time to myself to sort out the rejection. Please don't contact me for two week.And NO you dont go to the dance with her. She is your friend she should and needs to understand that you need to clear these feelings before continuing with the friendship. If she can't give you that time to sort things out then put the friendship on hold. Some people just cant jump from lover to friend. That is a process and it can take a while.
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reader, pavel38  +, writes (12 September 2007):
Have you explained to her that you'd appreciate a little bit of time to move on after her rejection so that you can stay good friends and put it behind you? I wouldn't invite her to the dance, I'd ask someone else. Perhaps she isn't really sure how she feels about you but at the moment she has no 'need' to work that out in her mind, whereas if you tell her you're taking someone else to the dance that might make her realise that she wants to date you, if not then you know you have to move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2007): you never know, maybe she loves you for real, she just cant tell that, maybe because she is stock with somebody else that she can not say no, maybe she is just waiting for the right time. if you care for her just be friend with her, she needs you.. i know, i feel it, because im a woman and im in the same situation. i rejected one of my suitors but the truth is i do care for him, its just that im stock with this other man to whom i dont love but i dont want to hurt him. i have a reason why i do this and im sure this woman of yours had also her important reason. but in the end of course you by yourself will be the one who will make a dicision. good luck........
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