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writes:dear cupidHope you are fine. I have a girlfreind who I love so much, but the problem is that, I don't know if this girl loves me as much as I do her, this girl does not call me at all, I have to call her everytime... even if I send her air time... right now she is out of town and she hasn't bothered to call but she is calling the friend all the time. How can I tell that she loves me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2007): she is either bored of what you guys talk about or not intrested in you anymore. I think if its your conversation she would atleast text you. If she doesnt like you anymore she wont be as affectionate towards you. Its easy to tell whether she is happy to hear from you listen to her voice. Best advice i could give is send her a email and demand some answers dont ask her. demand them!!!!
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reader, sexi  +, writes (10 September 2007):
 HiI cant really say what is the reason but is she shy?You should try speaking to her about this and then you would get the answers. Also you can say " How about you call me back at ____ (time)? Commmunications is very important and the only way for you to get your answers.Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, rcn  +, writes (10 September 2007):
 When you call her. Ask her "where do we stand" "do you want this relationship" Ask questions, you'll find your answer. Or you can go with the old saying "actions speak louder than words." If she says she does want to continue, then express your concern and let her know you don't feel as if you are important in her life with the lack of her calling you.
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (10 September 2007):
The first response can work as some girls (and guys) just don't know how to handle a relationship. However, some girls think that the guy should be doing ALL the work. It is frustrating, but sometimes the best way to judge is how she is with you when you are on the phone. Even better, you need to talk to her about this and address how you feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): Maybe she is shy and immature. The ONLY way to tell if she really does like you is to stop calling her so much and to sort of just pull back and let go a bit. If she starts getting anxious and calling you alot then you know that she really likes you. But if she still doesn't call and doesn't even care or notice that you are not trying to contact her anymore then you know that she just doesn't care.
I get the funniest feeling that you are not going to follow my advice. But it works for me EVERYTIME and at least I tried.
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