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writes:Ok well me and this girl I have been going out for three years are going good, but I am having trouble knowing when something is wrong. Are there any signs to show that something is wrong because she keeps telling me "nothing is wrong" or "its nothing"? Should I let it go or keep pushing? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008): "It's nothing" usually means there is something. You need to let her know that she can talk to you about anything, and whatever it is could never make you think any less of her. She needs to know you care and that it worries you. She may also feel silly if it's something small so you need to let her know you won't laugh at her or anything.
It is possible there is nothing wrong, but if she's acting strange then there probably is something, so I would keep pushing, but not too hard.
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reader, me:] +, writes (3 November 2008):
My ex and me used to have the same problem, We went out for over 2 years. I would be upset for a while and I would just say its nothing. but after I realized I was hurting him I stopped and became more open and it helped. OR she could wanna break up. I kept asking my ex one day What's wrong? and he wouldnt say until I forced him to tell me, and i knew it, those 6 words. I think we should break up. So it just depends on her youre gonna have to drag it out of her.
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reader, me:] +, writes (3 November 2008):
My ex and me used to have the same problem, We went out for over 2 years. I would be upset for a while and I would just say its nothing. but after I realized I was hurting him I stopped and became more open and it helped. OR she could wanna break up. I kept asking my ex one day What's wrong? and he wouldnt say until I forced him to tell me, and i knew it, those 6 words. I think we should break up. So it just depends on her youre gonna have to drag it out of her.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (3 November 2008):
 Here's a joke written about women that you might find relevant...
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/dear-cupid-this-is-the-kinda-stuff-we.html
It's the short-cut to what women mean, written tongue-in-cheek, but ther IS some truth there!!!
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (2 November 2008):
 Hi, umm I think you should just tell her that it would make you feel happy if she told you when something was wrong. Say to her that you will accept her opinion and her choice and that she should not fear from expreesing her worry to you. Just use your commonsence and you will see if something is wrong with her by her mood and the expression that she has on her face. Good luck and take care!
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