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writes:My girlfriend gets angry/annoyed easily and sometimes when I'm with her, she seems to get angry with me rather easily, or maybe she doesnt, but I think maybe I overeact and take her being annoyed/angry personally. I lover her dearly, and know that sometimes if she has trouble at home, study or work, she might be in a shitty mood. Hence, I try doing little things for her, to make her feel better. Along with that, it actually feels like I have to try harder not to irritate her, so it get's frustrating having to be 'on alert' all the time.. And I notice even when she's not in a bad mood, I feel like I need to try hard not to annoy her.So, being always on alert AND trying hard to do things to make her happy. I feel like iI'm not being appreciated. Help?! You guys think I'm over reacting and being needy or just taking things too personally??..thanks very much! Reply to this Question
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reader, shiraz +, writes (5 October 2008):
hiyahh i think your right to feel this way! you can help her by talking to her and telling her how it upsets you the way she can be, if you sit and talk you might find a reason behind it and she could have this fiery angry personality for a reason.
You cant live constantly waking up and not knowin what mood shes in today, what to expect and how to handle it its unfair and if it was a guy treating a girl like this it would be totally different the girl would be crushed so dont feel your over reacting at all.
i dont think its you as a person i think theres a reason to her behaviour and you being closest to her the one she loves is the one she takes it out on she might really need you right now but you need to get it out in the open whats really wrong in able to help her.
Well done for being so supportive for so long but you cannot carry on this way, best of luck hope this has helpped x :)
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reader, rcn  +, writes (5 October 2008):
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