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writes:Right so here's the thing I'm am old fashioned and I am well aware of this but I like being this way. It keeps me respectfull towards views on my relationship with my girlfreind which I love madly . The way I look at things is defanantly different to how other men do but I like that see I've been In a realtion ship for just under a year now and have loved it and can't get enough of being with my partner but I noticed when we go out sometimes she looks at other guys but the even worst part is that its almost like she loves it when they check her out now I don't know wether this is a confidence thing or what but the way I look at things is that I do not check out other women I'm aware that there are attractive women out there and walking about but I don't pay them attention the way I see it is that yeah sure its only looking but if your looking out to peeople that your oviuosly find more atrractive than why are you in a relationship I do not think looking is fine myself so I don't do it . and I know this sounds hard to believe but this is genuinly the way I am my gf is so hot so I don't need to so how do I aproach my partner because everytime I have asked her about it she denies is and swears down even though I see her oh another thing I think I should mention is that if she sees a girl checking me out she gets angry at me ??? Also I'd like to add that most of the guys she looks at arnt even that attractive I'm not even a bigheaded person but even I could tell her I look better than them so why does she look ?
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reader, thinkb4  +, writes (23 August 2011):
She could change yes,she may decide not to cheat but to dump you first when something more thrilling comes her way. You are setting yourself up,you know what she`s about,thats why you are here. She needs her ego boost and that is not happening unless she believes all eyes are on her. She is setting herself up with her wordless language right in front of you. I would get away or accept the inevitable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionalso in a past relationship where she was with a guys for five years she said it was really bad on both sides he put her down they faught all the time and she cheated on him like 3 times with different people this makes me majorly paranoid what do you think ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks alot for replying to my question it does make alot of sense what ive read here . so how should i go about this if she just blindly denies the fact that she seeks attention ? i meen i know what you said about leaving her but i do not want to just lose a year with the women i love i wana try so how could i try and get here to realise or maybe even change the way she does things i meen i wouldnt even mind if she gave guys a dirty look when they look at her but she pouts her lips instead now surely that not right thats like me tensing my arms or something everytime i see a girl ????
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2011): If you love being with her now,well you soon wont. She is showing narcissistic tendencies,and you will see a decline in your self worth. These types have no other aim except boosting their egos. Dont get too comfortable as they move on and fall in love again at the next opportunity. By that time you will breath a sigh of relief.
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reader, Kyle007  +, writes (21 August 2011):
You wrote:
oh another thing I think I should mention is that if she sees a girl checking me out she gets angry at me
She is very possessive and controlling to the max. How can you prevent someone else checking you out?
As far as what you are supposedly doing, no one gets more upset about the "wrong" things that others do that they really do themselves.
Her conscience is so shot by the fact that she wants attention from every guy in the room that she is convinced that you do the same thing when you don't.
I will bet this is not the only problem you are having. I will bet she has enough problems for BOTH of you.
She's nuts dude. See if there are any redeeming qualities that outweigh this but if not, seek elsewhere.
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