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writes:i meet this girl a year ago anyway we now live together i pay all the bills and take care of her and her 2 kids she says she loves but do,s not sleep with me and always wants money and leaves me for awhile comes back and hides in the bathroom and always has the phone with her and when she talks on the phone she whispers i don,t know if she doing drugs or playing behind my back there is a 20 year age diffrance between my qeastion is do i need to bail out before it,s to late and she is bipolar i just don,t what to do if i talk to her she becomes vary defensesive can you help me
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 December 2010):
My friend, you have become an ATM card to this woman. Move on now.
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reader, soon567 +, writes (20 December 2010):
You know she has a man so why pretend. You’re her BANK and if she had another way to make it; she would.
“It is possible she has love for you” there’s no freaking way this person loves you bipolar or not. Heck with meds she could live a normal life most of the time. Someone could love you but not be into you. You hear it a lot. I love you but not In-love with you, what their saying is I see you like a brother. Your case is worse, she don’t give a f about you. Accept what she offering you or move on. She needs someone support her and her two kids, that’s you buddy. She doesn’t want you as a lover or husband. If she has to sleep with you then I can only imagine the disgust she will feel. We both knows someone is doing her and it’s not you.
i am not hurtful at all dude, i am a realist and I call it aas i see it, sorry.
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reader, Tbosse  +, writes (20 December 2010):
 Leave her. Tell her you dont wanna be with her anymore.shes using you big time
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2010): It is possible she has love for you, but you need to sit her down and tell her what she is doing is rude and making you feel (and be) used. You deserve someone who gives you the time of day. But if you truly care about her after this time, you need to talk to her directly and figure out what's going on instead of jumping to assumptions such as drug- use.
-Tante Vic
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reader, rivi +, writes (20 December 2010):
If what you describe is completely truthful and w/o exaggeration then run a mile, or many miles from the situation you are in.
She is obviously using you - presumably when it started you were flattered to have the attention of a younger woman, but you're not even getting that now. Get out, pronto, and if she begs you to return - DON'T !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2010): you are being used, you are paying the bills for her and the kids and she still does not live sleep with you? There is something very wrong here.
Move out at the earliest
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (20 December 2010):
 It's hard for me to say this so bluntly but yes you need to get out of this one. She's using you and probably has no love for you. You deserve better.
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