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Sexually charged BF after a fight?

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Question - (19 April 2013) 13 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *Ax writes:

hello,

After my boyfriend and I have an argument and sort things out, he tends to ask for a lot of sexual attention. why does he do this?

Thank you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2013):

I don't really agree with most of these answers. I think it's just some good make-up sex, or the urge for it at least! The boyf and I always have some awesome make-up sex after a stupid fight.

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A female reader, xAx United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2013):

xAx is verified as being by the original poster of the question

xAx agony auntAnd no, he doesn't always win a argument.

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A female reader, xAx United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2013):

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xAx agony auntThank you for the reponses. I couldnt think of any explanation but now I think it was a way to dominate me as I asked him if it aroused him and he said no. also it's not him being lazy as he never says no to pleasuring me. And yes, it is brave of him to ask me! aha

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (19 April 2013):

eyeswideopen agony auntHe's a very brave man to ask for a blow job after an argument.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2013):

Oh that's just to make you his bitch and dominate you. "You may have won the argument, but now you're on your knees doing my bidding" kind of thing.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (19 April 2013):

Tisha-1 agony auntDo the fights end with him 'winning' every time?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (19 April 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony aunt"hey baby we had a fight time for my blow job" kind of thing?

if he asks for a blow job after a fight and does not want to cuddle and kiss and make love but wants to lay back and enjoy...

well then he's lazy

and he probably gets aroused from fighting

or maybe once after a fight you gave him a blow job and now he associates fights with blow jobs...

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A female reader, R1 United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2013):

R1 agony auntStress relief

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A female reader, xAx United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2013):

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xAx agony auntThat's what it can lead to but what I meant was that after arguments he asks me to give him oral sex.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2013):

Make up sex. Google it.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (19 April 2013):

chigirl agony auntTo patch things up and feel close again.

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A male reader, Hnk  United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2013):

Hnk  agony auntDear Op

It's normal and natural and there's nothing to be worried about . My girlfriend and I have really great sex after an argument when things sorted out. Inside I knew I still love her and small differences and arguments are just part of life which doesn't ask us to hold back my love for or feelings and I shouldn't carry any remorse in myself.

And after making love, we feel renewed love and great happiness :-).

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (19 April 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntmake up sex is so much fun!

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