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writes:I have to warn you this is major complicated, well for me it is... When I first met this guy he annoyed me so much. Him and his friends drove me crazy but they were all kinda sweet sometimes and they made me laugh when I really needed it... This guy used to tease me and say oh you so love me and lame jokes like that. I used to walk home with him but it's been like a year and he still remembers where I live... One day the teacher moved me away from the class coz I talked too much and one day she moved him beside me... he annoyed me but when I missed school after my nana died I went back and when I sat there I told him what happened and he said so did his grandma and he was so nice about it. At the grad trip his friends made us dance together but around his friends he acted like he didn't like me even though his old best friend told me he likes me (fyi they were friends at the time) then recently I was really upset and missed a lot of school for some personal reasons and didn't tell anyone but I told him coz he promised not to tell anyone an he said he was going through almost the same thing and said it will get better, he said I should just relax and get some sleep. Later in the conversation he said he likes bothering me and I asked why and he said he just does... Now I really like him but I heard he likes another girl and to be honest I don't find myself pretty even though people tell me I am and he's like cool. I'm kinda a loser and I don't know what to do because I really like this guy but I don't want to do anything coz the last guy I liked crushed my heart... he's so nice, he even helps me give guy advice to my friends but I'm just really scared. When we're talking, just me and him he's so understanding and sweet but around his friends and at school he sometmes acts like a jerk, like sometimes he will say hi and he will call me cute funny nicknames but why does he act like a jerk? My friends say maybe he does like me but I'm pretty sure he likes that other girl so I just don't know what to do... Lately I've been writing little poems about him and he's been in my head for a while, I'm just scared of being rejected again and his friends obviously don't like me... I just don't know what to do. Any advice at all???
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (18 March 2009):
 Hun guys don't mature for YEARS to come lol!he does like you he is only sweet to you when your alone because his mates aren't there but when he's with his mates he has to pretend he don't like you because his mates will tease him about you and he's got his "cool" image as you say to live up too.but perhaps when he's on his own and you guys are talking and tell him you like him and that he makes you feel better when you need it the most.See what he says as you say he is very sweet when he's on his own so get him when he's on his own or text him it as maybe he will be a bit shy to admit to you and texting is a bit more ideal.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (18 March 2009):
 I'm guessing this guy is the same age as you are? We as women mature quicker then guys do. I do think he likes you but he's got to put on this "cool image" in front of his friends and that's why he acts like a jerk but when it's just you and him together then he's more himself.
Play a little harder to get with him and let HIM seek you out. If he really does like you then he will come to where you are as he'll want to be around you. Play it cool with him and let him chase, you'll see the difference when he's got to fight to win you over.
~Eve~
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