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writes:My boyfriend got me a solid rose gold bangle for my birthday. It's simple, thin band that's beautiful. It's exactly my style. Only problem is that I have tiny wrists and big hands and it sits a little uncomfortable on my arm. Rubs against my wrist bones. Now he has insisted that I can change it but I wouldn't want to hurt his feelings. And he picked it out himself... That means a lot to me! But I would live to be able to wear it everyday and be comfortable... Should I suck it up and not say anything? Or will I change it? Reply to this Question
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reader, MSA  +, writes (11 April 2014):
 I say go with him to pick out a new one! This way, he will know what to get you in the future and you both can pick out a new bracelet together!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2014): Have it altered by a jeweller? Then you're keeping what he chose and making it fit better - had to have that done for my engagement ring.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (11 April 2014):
 Since he offered that you can change it, I would ask him to take you out looking for a new bracelet to replace this one with.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (11 April 2014):
 Pick something else out in the rose gold color and be thankful you have a kind and generous boyfriend. Wear the new item with a big smile and enjoy it.
Would your feelings be hurt if you gave him a watch that didn't fit his wrist and he wanted to exchange it for something that did fit?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (11 April 2014):
 he told you to change it... so how about if the two of you go together to swap it out for one that fits better.
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx +, writes (11 April 2014):
 He has told you to change it, so there is no problem there :) Go ahead and change it, you won't hurt his feelings I promise you.
Also are you planning to change it, so its the same bracelet just a different style? Therefore its still practically the same gift just in a different size x
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