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writes:my best best friend has a gf. they have been dating for quite a while now. a year and a bit in fact. they are very happy and are intimate. i myself have a gf but we never talk and the love just isn't there. recently i have started having feelings for my friends gf and i dunno what to do. help!!
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reader, Kirstyteenauntireland  +, writes (23 March 2009):
 First of all I think you should break up with your Girlfriend since there is no Love.
Secondly.I think you should Find another girl and Not your Best Friends Girlfriend.I know you have feelings for her but does she feel the same way? I suggest you talk to the Girl Confidetialy And hear what she has to say.And even if she does have feelings for you Do you really want to sacrafice your friendship between you and your Bbest Friend?
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reader, Mr Me  +, writes (23 March 2009):
 Just don't act on them or express them in any way to her or to your buddy. You will go through life and will always have crushes and the like on people, and sometimes you just have no choice but to not act on those feelings.
If you do choose to act on it, you will probably ruin your friendship with your best friend. And even if they break up, you need to make sure your friend is cool with it first.
On another note: I might suggest breaking up with your current girlfriend. You should string out something where you two don't talk and you're saying the love isn't there. That doesn't sound like a happy, healthy relationship and I'd bet you could find a more compatible girl that you'd have a lot of fun with and probably love.
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