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anonymous
writes:Hi! I am Gay and in my Teens and have an issue that I need help with. The thing is that I am unsure about the results of masturbating. I have a regular size penis but I want to know if masturbation or time will change my penis to regular size for my 20s? Please Help
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (3 May 2010):
 If masturbation made people's penises bigger... all the men would be stuck at home naked because they wouldn't be able to get their pants on!!
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (2 May 2010):
Trust me, though, it is quite true that if someone loves you then they won't care about your penis size.
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (2 May 2010):
OP, I know you're at a vulnerable place in your life and sensitive about this, but Heart is my friend. I know he's NOT trying to be mean!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2010): No hard feelings, and certainly no pun intended by the phrase.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry if I hurt your feelings in any way I'm deeply sorry but I am being falsly accused and that just annoys me so much that if your 13-15 gay and in UK you're automatically accused of writing several questions of the same guy and now I'm accused for this because I'm using capitals! I'm writing this on my iPod so it automatically capitilyses and I read the questions before asking this question and There has been no more than 3 questions a day! Again I'm so sorry if I hurt you're feelings it's just I get angry when I get falsly accused!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2010): How dare I? Basically because, as you can see if you look at the sub-section on this site entitled 'Gay Relationships', you might notice that there has been an abnormally huge avalanche of questions recently from a gay teenage male aged 13-15 with a UK flag. I'm sure I'm not the only regular Dear Cupid reader who's noticed it, either.
If you read these questions, you'll notice that they are all written in the same style and ask variations on the exact same thing. They would appear to have all been written by the same guy. The writer's tone is desperate, childish, driven. My 99.999% conclusion is that you've written them all, sometimes six or seven 'questions' a day.
I'm not about to waste my time by going back over them and counting them, but I'd be fairly sure at least a dozen of them started off with 'Hi I'm Gay and I'm in my Teens' (note use of capitals). It would take a very gullible soul to believe that they were all written by different people.
No real harm in it, I suppose, but...what's your point, and what exactly are you expecting to achieve? I suspect that the frequency of replies to these questions is getting scarcer all the time because there isn't much anyone can say beyond what's already been said (i.e. if you are gay that's completely fine and not something to fret about and it's a matter of becoming comfortable with it and you certainly shouldn't rush into telling people about it at this age or making a big announcement or 'coming out', though maybe a sympathetic female friend whom you're certain you can trust might be a good place to start if you need to get it off your chest).
But firing in several zillion questions about the same issue is going to strike people on this site as time-wasting, and seems to be fairly unhealthy compulsive behaviour on your part. Why don't you read a book, go for a nice walk, go to see a good movie?
I'd maybe normally sound off at this point with more detailed advice about dealing with the trauma/thrill of finding out you're gay in your teens, and how best to deal with it, but you're after attacking me personally for pointing out something that's surely completely obvious to anyone who looks at the evidence for two minutes.
I'm sure you'll be happy to hear that I've enough experience dealing with insults and name-calling to not be in the least bit troubled by you describing me as a 'jerk' but I'd say a little more politeness on your part wouldn't do you any harm in your dealings with people. And, despite your abusive post just now, I do wish you the best of luck in coming out and accepting your sexuality.
Cheers
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank You for your help I don't have an older brother or a father I know so I'll never will know. Recentley I've been getting attracted to women and men so bi is what I am now! heartfullalove I looked in the 'Gay Relationship' category and only two of the many questions I have asked why blame me for the 30 questions you have falsly accused me fir asking many questions how dare you!!!!! The only questions I have asked are ' Should I tell anyone on my new school I'm gay?' and 'Should I keep my account a secret from my family?' !! Thank You for your help all answers accept heartfullalove's answer you jerk!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2010): He's back AGAIN. I estimate that must be at least his 50th 'question' this month. I won't waste my time counting them. But have a look at the sub-section entitled 'Gay Relationships' and see if this guy sounds healthy.
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reader, AvgGuy1  +, writes (30 April 2010):
 The best indicator of penile size... is that of other males in your family (father & older brothers). If you can get a look at their(s) you'll be able to see about what you'll end up with... in the long run.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (26 April 2010):
 Nope, it won't change your penis size. However, you being 13-15 means that you're not finished growing and maturing. Your penis will grow larger, but not because of masturbation.
Good luck!
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