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*amheretohelp
writes:Hey aunts !So its not like I have problems or anything, but I think I really need someone to talk to. It might make me feel better .But there are all these little problems I have, and I dont wanna write them all up here and post like 100 questions and wait for answers.So bascially I want a patient , nice , supportive , aunt that maybe I can IM online if possible ?I need some advice too, so someone whose good at doing that ? And someone who has time to talk to this troubled teen haha :]I wanna like, feel like Im talking to her... like a real aunt would be like. I dont think I have serious issues, but its teenage stuff that I hate sooo much but maybe I do have issues , you never know...Letme tell you about myself ?Well, Im 16, a girl, 4.0 GPA so im determined i guess, i have good morals and i dont do drugs/drink ... yeah , and more but thatll be later.PLEASEEEE I really need someone to talk to and someone to help me decide things !Possibly a woman, just because they have probablly been though the same things as me. No offense to guys.THANKKKKK YOUUUUUUUUU !
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reader, justme1 +, writes (30 May 2009):
no one can decide things for you you just need to trust what you think to be ok for you
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reader, lappy  +, writes (24 May 2009):
help me pls. im going crasy. there was fight btw my hubby and i, and he has moved to his parents house. the mum called me earlier to find out what was the problem, i explained alittle but she went ahead to tell my hubby that i insulted her even in the mist of the problem. my hubby refused to come home and the parent refused to call me .
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reader, its ok___smile!  +, writes (15 December 2008):
im here to be helpful so please dont ignore me!!!!
if you need help just ask me or any of us and we will do our best to help you!
need help ask me!
from its ok___smile!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2008): Glad we could help babes, we want you to be happy, we want you laughing and enjoying your youth. I'm glad things are looking up for you, and when you have bad days, just remember the time you asked for help and just watched everyone fight to be your special friend...
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reader, iamheretohelp +, writes (9 August 2008):
iamheretohelp is verified as being by the original poster of the question Omg, you are so hilarious hahahaha :)
Go be a comedian :D
You made my day... or like, my year hahaha....
Ever since then btw, i am better, less depressed that is...
Thanks guys :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): Congratulations Emivia,
Agony Aunts and Uncles International hereby award you the prize of the Agony Aunt to all those with secret problems in multiples of 100. Forever more we will sing out your name in poetry, you will go down in history as a great inspiration.
Imheretohelp had a 100 questions
And she didn't want to waste time
So she lay down a challenge
"Who shall slay these dragons of mine"
Many aunts and uncles responded
They lined up in a queue
She was overwhelmed by the response
And didn't know what to do
But one lucky lady shined out
A beacon of delight
Her name was EMIVIA
Her words clear at provideing light
So she won the competition
May praise rain througout the land
And another legend is created
As they walk off hand in hand
Sorry, but I'm crap at poetry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): Hey, Whats going on? I am a 50 year old mom who loves to solve kids problems. I have 3 kids, well not kids, a 30 year old, and twins that are 23, all boys but I have a habit of trying to help all of their friends out with things that are bothering them. Nothing is as impossible to figure out as it seems. If your looking for someone who is truly interested in you and your problems let me help you cause I care, really. Hang in there. Jay
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reader, think +, writes (2 June 2008):
listen hon just talk 2 your mom, a close pal, dad, nan, pa,p anyone maybe a support group or you could just write down your problems and feelings read them back and ask so do I need help or am I ok.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): Whoooooooooooooohooooooooooooooo!
:)
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reader, iamheretohelp +, writes (1 June 2008):
iamheretohelp is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHahaha, that beauty contest comment completey made me crack up !
So yeah, even if I dont pick you, Diovanlastet, you surely DID help hahaha.
So thank you.
Well, since I started out with Emivia as my first one to hear my troubles, I guess she won ?
But I hate to say that, becuase all of you made me feel special and I apreciate that to a point a cant describe.
To see all these people willing to help out this girl who seems to feel lost and unwanted... wow, i wish all of you lived here in my hometown instead of all these mean people we have :]
So I will talk to all of ya lol ;
If you cant stand my whining, then thank the rest that I have other people to talk to hahah ;]
If you can stand my whining, then gosh, arent you perfect !
Thanks tooo alll !
You'll be hearing from meeee :]]]
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008): Hey im 20 and maybe been through the same things as you. We already seem to have a lot in common. I was a 4.0 GPA in high school, have good morals and consider myself to be nice. I like to listen. Im in college now and im premedicine. Sooo feel free to IM me anytime im on a lot sooooo im me at gottascrewlose86
=)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): sorry for messing up my last post but i will just start where i left of: i have read alought of books that train people to become a still cant rembember the word a persion that healps people with there problemsP.S i do have an acount here its just when ever i post answors with it they never go thrugh[Moderator Note]Use the private messaging facility on your account here to exchange messages. Email and other personal details are not allowed for the users own security.
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (31 May 2008):
 Hey im a teenager and i would be happy to help you if you want. Message me if you feel like it. If by IM you mean MSN then I can give you my addy and we can chat about whatever you like! Good luck with everything hun xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): Wow...... We got a beauty contest going on.....
xkitycatlok-x (strange name) aged 14, sensible, kind and available to help. Emivia, 20years, with similar morals and values, with an open mind and a listening ear. Taina1980 at 27years old and plenty of experience of life. A male reader, young, but still a man with a man's mind and opinions. Artistry from the USA, mature and wise with a great sense of humor. Diovanlestat, bad tempered, judgemental but willing to help. Lushlass93, young but wise and used to giving advice to people of her own age......
AND THE WINNER IS....... Stuff, where's the judge gone.
We want to know who won the prize and we want to know what prize they've won........... Please update soon, and put me out of my misery.
PS: Dose two post count as cheating? I think it dose, so I'm out, and I disqualify myself.....
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reader, lushlass93 +, writes (31 May 2008):
 hjey if you want to talk go onto my name because althouhg i am young wich is good to help you because i know how you wil be feeling i can give mature good advice and i can help you
talk o me anytime wich i can help and i will listen alot of my friends come to me for advixce and i will listen to you and give my opion if you want it
thanxx xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): I am not patient, I am not nice , I am nobody's aunt, but I still like to support and help.
No question is stupid. If you don't ask how you gonna know? How you supposed to learn?
Your 16, got something called GPA at 4.0 (sounds wonderful to me, whatever it is) You don't drink or do drugs, but still feel troubled.
Probably friendship problems, family problems, body issues or church.... No problem, easily sorted... Maybe it's a guy, you've been looking at... All natural and normal at your age.
You can mail me or any of the aunts who have offered freindship and help, by pressing the button above. Whatever your doing is just fine, don't worry about anything, it'll all be ok.
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reader, Artistry +, writes (31 May 2008):
 Hi, I am older, so you would be talking to a seasoned individual with a great sense of humor. I would love to help you if I can. Do they send e-mails directly through?I live in the States. If you like to read, you can go to a web site where I have a lot of self-help articles, "Finding Your Core" "Survival", and one other that is very good, "First, Love Yourself", if interested go to www.socyberty.com/writers/quiet+voice.8137. If you wnat to ask me a question, that is a second way to ask. I will respond here, for you. Do print out those articles for yourself. Look to hear from you. Take care of yourself. Remember, time takes care of a lot of things, do not fretor take too many things seriously. Most of all, become your own best friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): ask me anything im way younger then you but i know alought about relatioship problems i know that im not a girl but i do read alought of books that train people to become i cant rembember right now but
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reader, taina1980 +, writes (31 May 2008):
hi I'm 27 & have been thru everything u can possibly imagine let's talk...
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): All right.
Try me.
I like listening.
I'm 20.
So I've recently been through the teen-age thing and come out fine.
I'm in a serious relationship.
I'm in my second year of college, doing well.
and I have the same morals as you. I don't drink (except on Christmas or New year's eve.. and even then I never get drunk). I do no drugs and I'm very honest.
I will never tell you what to do, but I will tell you my honest opinions about the situation and tell you what I think is best.
I am from Ireland though, so there's a big time difference. But as long as you don't only have this kind of time to talk (and you can talk earlier in the day) then it should be fine.
Email me here if you'd like to spill your beans on me.
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x +, writes (31 May 2008):
 Well, I may only be 14, but you are perfectly welcome to contact me any time. I do have MSN and such, so you can IM me if you wish. I may not be your first choice due to my age, but I'm always here if you need me.
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