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writes:I feel so clueless when it comes to flirting, because I never seem to know what to say. I can be awkward at times so there are awkward silences. But generally, can you guys just give me some pointers on how to flirt? Do what I say always have to be hinting that I like someone?
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reader, mandy0113  +, writes (16 May 2008):
Its very simple, in order to be a good flirt or to even flirt for that matter is to just be yourself, you have to learn how to be confident around a boy, the only way he's gonna witness that you are probably not a good flirt or even a flirt is if you don't try or don't do it right, so be confident and be beautiful(which is whats inside of you), and be yourself, and trust me, you'll be a one hell of a flirt!
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x  +, writes (5 April 2008):
 Ah... Flirting. What fun. Anyway, you can play around with your hair. Run it through your fingers a lot and stroke it gently, softly. Flirting doesn't always have to be with words, but body movements too. You can also try putting your hand on his arm or thigh. This helps. If you run your fingers gently along the inside of your wrist, which is one of the most sensitive and apparently intimate areas of the body.
Laugh at his jokes a little, but not too much. Don't want him to think you're easy. Also, just smile at him a lot. Shoot him a killer smile and he's sure to fall into your charms.
Wishing you the best.
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): It seems daunting, but flirting is not as hard as it seems! Eye contact is key - don't stare like a crazy person but look up and catch his eye now and again. Smile whilst you do it.
Ask questions - guys are shallow and like to talk about themselves. So ask a guy questions, and try to make them open ended rather than having a simple 'yes/no' answer. Something like, how did you first get interested in such-and-such, or what do you think about this?
You don't have to be obvious - tease a guy rather than fawn over him. Insult him in a gentle way - NOT a mean way. Keep contact with him, push his arm or leg whilst you're joking together.
I hope that helps! The most important thing is to have FUN!! Relax and it will come to you!
xxxxx
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (5 April 2008):
 well firstly pick on whom u want2 flirt with..because if u keep firting with all guys may very soon be tagged as a SLUT and we definitely dont want that..so just start a converstion dont act too flirty the first time..try and be funny..guys like girls with good humour dont over do it u wouldnt want him to call u a RETARD..look hott try and dress up extra and look smokin hot..listen to him let him talk show interest ..ask anout him his likes or dislikes..see if u have something in comon and talk about it..and then when u get closer u can ask him for cofee!!best of luck hun
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