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writes:I've slept with my bf of 6 months now for the 1st time about 4 months ago now, but every attempt at sex since and including then has either been painful for him or I'm just not getting anything out of it. We've tried so many different position some nice for me but are painful for him, some are good for him but I don't get anything. Do I just need to get used to him or summat? Anybody know where we're going wrong? Reply to this Question
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reader, Skeez +, writes (17 March 2008):
 Has he had sex before? And did he complain about it then too? If so then maybe hes got some medical problem with his penis. Or maybe you are not lubricated enough, so its rough and feels unpleasant for him. Instead of trying new positions get some lube a Pharmacist and if it doesnt help then get your BF to a GP. goodluck
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reader, Gena Bullock  +, writes (17 March 2008):
 Your BF needs to get a physical. He is too young to be having such 'pains' so there may be something physcial going on that needs tending to. Go with him for support.
Good luck. There's nothing more frustrating and if you care, you'll help him see this through. If there's nothing wrong, and you both want to stay in the relationship, go to counseling. Gena
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