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writes:Question: My boyfriend doesnt know but i know he watches porn which is fine cuz i do it but most of the time i notice on the history on the computer he watches a lot of gangbang pornos and its mostly like 5 black guys and one white girl. does this mean he has or wants to gangbang a white girl/any girl with his friends?help guys i would like to know what men think of thisthanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2010): Truthfully it more then likely just a fanasty. Me and my wife both have had the same one, about her being gangbang. Truthfully it just something that turns us both on, but we never done anything about it. Look at the porn he is watching on the computer, there is 2 different type og gangbangs, the abusive and the normal. The normal is the girl is having fun and nothing is force on her. As for the fact why is he watching 5 guys on 1 girl. Simple, most guys do enjoy a girl enjoying herself. I do know that I enjoy my wife having plesure. As for porn itself, I have watched it for years and I never had the need to go to the rough stuff, think it is a excuse for people to ban it. Sex and fanastys are a great thing to have. Never hurts to tell each other what your fanasty is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): This gangbang fantasy is not just a male thing. Some women have that fantasy, but would never do anything like that. My wife used to have the fantasy of being with multiple men when she was younger. Another girlfriend told me that it was also a fantasy of hers. Both said that they would never do it, but the fantasy was fun. The girlfriend said that she might have done it with 2 guys, but that it was far too dangerous unless she could completely trust both guys. She would have never gone that far though.
I don't believe that a gangbang is degrading to women and my wife agrees. There is porn that is degrading to women, but that is not it unless the gangbang is a fake rape or something like that. If the woman is really enjoying it or at least not disliking it then how is it degrading? Many of the porn actresses actually enjoy the sex that they are participating in. Some of the orgasms are even real. Asia Carrera has said that she actually had multiple orgasms when making a movie. Others do it for the money and don't enjoy it or dislike it. It is just a job that can pay well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2010): Watching gangbang porn is like watching any other movie. It is either a fantasy or to vicariously experience something that you would never do. How many guys would like to have the shit beat out of them like in the first Rocky movie. If your guy watched it several times would you ask if he wanted to fight the world champion? If he watches a James Bond movie would you think that he wants to boink 5 different women and kill 50 bad guys in real life?
I watch a lot of different porn, including occasionally gangbang porn. However, I have no desire to do something like that or have my wife do something like that. Fantasies are just that - fantasies. They are things that we will never get a chance to do and most likely never do even if the chance arose.
"Wouldnt a more "normal" male fantasy be watching 5 ladies with one man?"
Not really. It would be normal for a guy to think of having a 3some with 2 women, but very few men could handle 5 women. I can't even imagine fantasizing about that, although I do fantasize about being with 2 women. Us guys can't have multiple orgasms and can't perform again soon after one orgasm.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010): My concern would be more that he wants to watch 5 men and only one lady. Wouldnt a more "normal" male fantasy be watching 5 ladies with one man? He cant have much respect for women in general if watching a lady being treated like that excites him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010): No it doesnt mean that. It means thats his fantasy that turns him on, or at least one of the things that turn him on. But there is a line between fantasy and reality! Things that turn us on in fantasy wont always turn us on in real life. For example people can be turned on by rape, but in real no one would want to be raped, obviously. Apologies in advance if anyone felt offended by that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010): It doent really mean anything, I doubt he has done that. Guys sometimes like to see different sex scienes, its just a laugh really.So I wouldnt worry about it, remember the best fantasies are better kept fantasies
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reader, Flyguymyeye  +, writes (13 February 2010):
I dont think it means that. It is probably seeing a woman degraded and treated like a piece of meat that he gets off on.Porn addiction requires more and more extreme porn to get the same thrill.Talk to him about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010): Why the hell do you care what he wants to do? You are watching porn, you condone his watching porn you ought to understand the reasons for watching porn.It is a stupid habit for immature people who aren't in an adult relationship and having sexual intercourse with each other. His taste is pretty disrespectful of women and those types of gang bang related porn are about degrading and subjugating women.I would be more concerned about that, his view of women and their value and his honest and decent respect for them. I don't think he has it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010): It does not neccessarily mean he wants to do this but maybe you should speak to him about it and try to be as non judgemental and non confrontational as possible, it might just be a passing phase or something that he is curious about and trying to figure something out. I would suggest you ask him what he thinks about it and what if any element of it gets him off, you'll get to know a lot more about him that way, its quite possibly completely harmless and something completely separate from his relationship with you and how he feels about you.Personally, I've watched stuff like this before and there is something intriguing about a woman who gets pleasure from a gang bang, not really something i'd watch very often because to me it seems degrading to the woman and there is far too much manflesh involved.hope this helps
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