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writes: I was dating my ex boyfriend for almost 4 years, we broke up because we realised we couldn't get married due to the fact that we are of different religions and our families wouldn't be supporting. However, I want to get back with him even if it means we will not get married ever. Is this a wise step to take considering we are so emotionally involved with each other?
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reader, keepn real +, writes (13 October 2005):
I am in a similar situaton and let me tell you it is extemely hard. We have children involved now and we do not know how to handle this situation. We were toghther almost 10 years and it isn't getting any easier. New problems always arise and let me tell you one day you will want to wed. Take it from a girl that has been there. If this is already a problem, it will continue to be.
However only the two of you can decide your future. Talk to him and work out any curves and bumps that you WILL have on the road that lies before you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2005): Yes. If you love him that much, go for him and marry him if that's what you both want.
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reader, Kay-the-Cloud +, writes (11 October 2005):
What do you think you should do? Just because you and him are different religions doesn't mean you can't marry. Surely you have friends? They can support you. You can marry who ever you like, no matter about any thing else, it's about what you want. It's your life, do what you want.
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reader, AuntieChrissy +, writes (11 October 2005):
If you believe that you will stay together, and that you will both be faithful, i don not see anyr reason why you should not stay together, even if you do not get married
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reader, Ellis Mac +, writes (11 October 2005):
Please do not let religion come in the way of love, nor should other peoples actions or judgements be your guides.
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reader, Cambelina  +, writes (11 October 2005):
It's a very difficult situation, but i feel that if you both love eachother and you see a real, 'solid' future together that you should go for it and show your families that it wasn't with the intention of hurting them, you just had to follow your hearts. the important thing is that you're always honest with yourself and the people around you. You can't go wrong if you do that!
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