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On again, off again boyfriend doesn't feel like the one.

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Question - (25 February 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 25 February 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

me and my boyfriend been together for 2 years and 4 months and we been on an off for like a year now and im wondering should i call it a quits now after so many breakups?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (25 February 2010):

Then he's not the one. You just keep getting together and breaking up. If he was the 'one', it wouldn't be happening like this. You've got a lot more life to live yet, so end it with this guy, really focus on yourself and one day you will find the right guy.

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A male reader, heyheyhey1 United States +, writes (25 February 2010):

one of my friends met and married a guy who she feel in love with and there is this awesome passion and fairy tale romance there. My sister has been on and off with her BF since like 9 years and I dont see the same passion and fairy tale there. I think if you break it off and keep going back takes some of the fairy tale love away. not that real love is a fairy tale anyway.

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A female reader, leechweed United States +, writes (25 February 2010):

it seems to me that one or both of you have commitment issues with one another. Who ends the relationship first? You or him? Does he take you on a crazy in love relationship trip only to shrivel like the fruits of prosperity that hasn't been pruned and looked after carefully but keeps getting poked and picked and prodded before it ever gets ripe if only he would take his sweet time make you want a break up and run for the hills, like a little hiatus and then you go back to run back home to momma, didnt you ever hear about Tommy Lee and Pamela Anderson, two of the biggest j@cka$$e$ in love, well anyways thats my advice. Dont settle for less

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (25 February 2010):

The Realist agony auntIf you don't feel that the relationship is going anywhere then it would probably be best to call it off. You're still young and shouldn't struggle with realationships like this. There is so much to experience that you don't need a relationship so take time to enjoy life and if you get into another realationship make sure its more for fun and not so serious. You don't want to be held down by someone during your youth. If they don't provide you with happiness then don't bother, you don't need them.

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