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30-35,
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writes:This is about a dream I've had.I've possibly had hundreds of dreams about my teacher for the past three years. I can't explain why I love him, I just do. I know that he's not anything I need, but somehow I keep falling for him over and over again.It gets frustrating, but at least when i am around him, I can control how I feel and focus on what he's teaching. In the dream, I was sitting on a bed with him, but the bed was inside the school. I was crying for whatever reason, and there was a comfortable silence. Soon enough, he caressed my arm, and I gasped. Then, he started brushing my hair, and immediately i started feeling better. I didn't even care that the door was open, and a bunch of students were saying "They're together!"This dream wasn't similar to any of the other dreams I've had about him. In the others, we stare/smile at each other like we do in real life, flirt, kiss, have deep conversations. (the kissing part does not happen in real life)I'm just curious about this one, because it's so different. Well, in real life, he is married, 45, and has a new baby boy. I am never going to tell him how I feel, that's for sure, unless if He tells me first. (which is not likely) I'm mature enough to know that someone like him is way out my league.Still...What does this dream mean?
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (16 February 2008):
 You would love more with this teacher signified by the bed in this dream which symbolises your "intimate self" but you are intelligent enough and sensible enough to know there is no way you can possibly have him and this frustration is coming out subconsciously through your dreams and that's why you're crying. Crying in a dream usually signifies our negative emotions which are being released more likely caused by some waking situation rather than the events of the dream itself therefore your dream is a way to regain some emotional balance and a way to safely let out your fears and frustrations.
When he brushes your hair it's as if he's saying, don't worry, everything is okay, I am here for you as your guide and mentor. He is reassuring you in a "fatherly/motherly" way more than sexually and the very fact that he's a teacher suggests that you are seeking some advice, guidance, or knowledge. It could also mean that you are seeking approval for something in your waking life and hoping he will give you this approval.
~Eve~
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reader, rcn +, writes (16 February 2008):
 You're looking at him as being someone of comfort. It's not uncommon for children to see adults as someone safe and comforting individuals in their lives.
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