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writes: Me again! I've posted twice about this guy I'm seeing who will be moving away soon and isn't sure whether we'd work out or not...Ok, so I've come to realise he (S) has an issue with commitment, which is ironic as HE was always the one saying how much he wanted to settle down and stop the madness of being a single lad. I've also discovered that certain people he knows have been stirring and saying things about me, which obviously isn't helping. I'm gutted that he's letting his stupid friends influence him. He's in the Army and many of the soldiers have the same mentality that life is all about getting drunk, having fights and sleeping around...he wanted to settle down with me but his supposed friends have obviously convinced him otherwise. So it seems he's decided to close off from me, and box himself and his feelings for me up. I just can't get to him anymore and it's driving me mad. Friends have said he's just protecting himelf...but I don't understand how if you can care for someone as greatly as he said he did why it's so easy to act cold towards them? He's hardly shown me any affection lately, and that's hard.Deep inside I know that things can work out with us, as we had something special together. What can I do to reassure him I'm not stringing him along, not seeing anyone else and to prove that us seeing how things go will be best for both of us?? This is really hard for me and I'm at my wits' end. Please help... and don't tell me to forget about him because that's not an option...!x
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reader, Strumpet +, writes (19 March 2006):
Strumpet is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Starrla, thanks for your reply. I've tried..obviously to no avail! Even his friends have said to me they know he does like me alot he's just listened to people who have tried $hit stirring...and I don't know what I can do to make him see things - see ME - the way he used to...
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reader, Starrla +, writes (19 March 2006):
 Just tell him How much you love him,and you would never do anything to hurt,ecpecially you wouldn't never cheat on him.
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