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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I feel completly lost and confused. I've never had a boyfriend and suddenly two guys are really interested in me. They're both really nice, beautiful and smart. I can't decide, it's impossible and I don't wanna lose them. I can't stop thinking about this and I feel really sad and I don't wanna hurt them. :( How can I deal with a situation like this?
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reader, The Realist +, writes (5 May 2010):
Get to know them both then pick the one that your heart chooses. Ignore most of the logic and just pick the one that feels right. My gf was in this situation with me and another guy before we started dating. Her heart wanted me but this other guy was perfect for her in values and life goals. She followed her heart and we have been together ever since.
One guy will give you those butterflies and then you will know which one to choose.
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female
reader, Xtina356 +, writes (5 May 2010):
Date both casually until you get to know both of them, then make a decision. You do not need to be exclusive until you know who is the better match for you. Till then, have fun.
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