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writes: Me and my boyfriend were dating for 6 months, and a week ago, we decided to "take a break". The reason why is because we both thought things were "different intimately", but the feelings are still there for the both of us. We agreed that we were spending too much time together. Well, I want to get back together, but i don't know how to do it. And i don't want to ask him because I don't want him to think that I'm "rushing it". How do I get him to want to get back together sooner? How do I act torwards him?
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reader, carla +, writes (3 June 2005):
Let him know by your actions, not your words!!
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (2 June 2005):
 I think the best thing to do in this situation is to feel your way really.You firstly need to find out how he is feeling. You can discover whether he is happy spending time alone or whether he is filling his days with work and socialising.Tentatively suggest to him that perhaps you both go out on a 'date', maybe go for a meal or the cinema and see how you are together.Tell him that you have been missing him; there is no harm in saying that. You don't have to be pushy. Express to him how you still feel about him.I think then, the rest you will have to leave to him. I think this is the only way you can play this one.Good luck.
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