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writes: Dear Cupid, never done this before so here goes... I am a 19 yr old virgin and am beginning a relationship. I am really nervous about losing my virginity as I don't know what to expect. I get worked up about if he will fit in me as when I masturbate I can only get 2 fingers in as it feels like an elastic band that wont stretch anymore. My bf doesn't know I'm a virgin and don't know what he'll think if he wont fit in me, please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, malaysianfeet +, writes (25 January 2006):
Congratulations. Take it openly with him. That's the basis of many things to come. The issue is more than the tissue. Its about how you will fit into each other's perspective of what constitutes caring and taking it from there.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (21 January 2006):
 Two pieces of advice for you.....1. Tell him you are inexperienced.2. Think about this, a baby gets out, he will have no problem getting in.Good luck and enjoy yourself x
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reader, caitini +, writes (16 January 2006):
I am also a 19 year old vigin and have the exact same worries as you. I have a boyfriend who which i am ready to go all the way with. I was worried he wouldn't fit in me so I bought a dildo(rampent rabbit)-using lubrication it was really sore at first but it did the trick and now i am ready for my boyfriend this weekend! If your worried and embarrased about buying a dildo-don't be because the sales people see all diffferent kinds of people from all walks of life everyday- they won't take any notice!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2006): I recently lost my virginity and also my bf was unaware of me not have had sex prev - it was slighty painful at first but the worst is then over...you'll be gutted you didnt have sex earlier...its awesome!!
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reader, MilanaNYC21 +, writes (12 January 2006):
 First off, you should relay to your boyfriend that you are a virgin. He will go slow and make sure you are excited enough to enjoy the experience. First times are never pleasent and sex may actually be uncomfortable the first few times. However, after the initial agony, it is an enjoyable process. You may even bleed the first time, but this is a natural reaction and you need not worry.
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reader, purrfectionist84 +, writes (11 January 2006):
 Relax! Of course he will fit. Engage in plenty of foreplay prior to sex, and you will be well-lubricated. If your hymen is still intact (a higher likelihood if you've never used tampons), then it will break the first time that you have sex, but this should not be very painful, nor should the pain last for long. Just let your boyfriend know that you are a virgin and have him be as slow and gentle as possible the first time, and it will be a great experience. Don't worry about your vagina being large enough; it will naturally expand when you are sexually aroused in order to accommodate his penis.
Most of all, don't rush into anything! Your virginity is precious, and you've just begun this relationship. Make sure that you're in love with the guy before you consent to have sex with him--it'll be better that way!
Good luck and best of wishes.
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