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writes: Hi everyoneBefore I start I just want to say that a yes or no answer will do. Yes for there is some flirting or more and no for absolutely no substance. Thank you everyone.The question is: My partner and I are in our early fifties. She is very beautiful and does not look a day over 41, sexy, elegant dresser, a flirt and surprisingly self esteem is not that high. She always looks at good looking men but says she would not take anything further then just harmless fun. I have my doubt sometimes but she is happy. She probably has a varied past and reluctant to talk about it so I have not persue it further.We been together 15 months.She now works for a boss who is 40, according to her very good looking, makes her laugh and a good boss. He is married. They went out once alone for 9 hours for dinner to discuss career. She had said so recently that she missed him when she was off sick for a short while, she is quite open with it and sent him the following email(I cut out the part my question is base on for advice)that is as follow: "Thought I would send you a quick email to thank you very much for the books. It was a really lovely thought, and I am glad they topped the management text book. You must know me quite well by now too, as they are books I would chose myself and that is honesty."My question is she coming on to him when saying you must know me quite well by now or am I just being totally silly?Many thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007): If she is a naturally flirty person then that is how she is and you will have to accept that. I don't understand the 9 hour dinner bit, i would be p***ed off if my bloke had a dinner date with his female boss for that long. How would she feel if that was you? I just couldn't speak to my boss in such a way, but that is me, i like work to be more professional and bosses kept at arms length. Sorry, to be blunt but i think you need to have a talk with her and point these things out to her. If it bothers you so much then it is best off your chest. I don't think you are being silly, i would be just the same. Have a chat with her soon.
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (13 March 2007):
 No, it doesn't sounds to me like she's flirting in the email. But a 9-hour dinner?! They must have had really slow waiters or something...
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reader, melschatbox  +, writes (13 March 2007):
 Doesn't seem flirty to me...but not appropriate professional language in my opinion.
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