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writes: Hi, My friends invited some strippers over and I got involved with one of them. She really liked me, by the way she expressed herself to me and I fell in love with her. Then I asked her out, but on Saturday night after she finishes I got sick and we could not go out. Then next day when I rang her, she said she was busy and was going out with her friends that night so I told her to give me a time. I also sent her flowers and chocolate the next day. Now she has not replied back but she really told me that she liked me a lot. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2005): As a profession she is treated as a thing not a person .. money etc .. you need to back off give her space and not be sending her things and pushing her like alot of blokes probably already have or do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2005): Tough one. It does indeed seem like she is having second thoughts. Pushing it more with flowers or with trying to call/meet her now is probably going to push her away even more. I think I'd give it a rest for some days or a week and see if I still felt the same, then if I did I'd try one last time by looking her up and talk to her. That way she gets a bit of time to think and decide wheter she liked you or not, and maybe she'll even start to miss your company a bit. All that said I must admit its not looking all that promising, best of luck to you though :)
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