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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi there,I broke up with my bf three months ago and i am not ready to have a relationship. I met this guy one month ago and we slept together that night.One month later we went out and we had fun but for sure i do not like him this way but i find him really hot. We had sex all night long and it was awesome.He texted last sunday saying that we will catch up soon but he has somethings to do now. It was fine with me.The question is, i like him as a fried with benefits but i am not sure he is interested in this. Maybe yes because he keeps saying that we will catch up soon. But maybe he was something really sporadic .. I am unsure about how to proceed or how much contact would be normal .. Thank you !!!
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reader, chickpea2011  +, writes (18 November 2011):
 Hi,
It's has been only a month? So, for now just enjoy meeting him, getting to know him. Do not stress yourself about getting into a relationship. You said it yourself you are not ready, also you've just broken up with your ex recently. I am sure, as time goes by, you both will decide what to expect from each other. For now, just get to know him, enjoy.
If the subject come up, then you can explain to him how you feel about getting into a relationship. Tell him how you feel, that you'll rather take things slowly. Honesty is the best way...
Good luck
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2011): when he has nowhere else to go he may get in touch for your desired fwb arrangement. you will get sex,but respect i`m not sure about.
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