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writes:In the last 8 months I have spent alot of time socializing with my friends and have started to have feelings for a male friend. He is intelligent, funny and more on my wavelength than my boyfriend of 2 years-who is perfect but we don't have much in common. Recently me and my friend kissed on a night out and both admitted we like each other, we've spoken almost everyday since. I cant stop thinking about him and miss him when we're apart. I think I'm falling for him in a big way, the thought of him with someone else kills me. Do I follow my feelings and do something about them? Or should I follow my head and revive my relationship?Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (14 March 2007):
 Hi sweetness,
It sounds to me like you've already made your decision. Read over your question. You've told us all about how great your male friend is, and not much about your current boyfriend. Sounds to me like your mind is already made up and your heart is drifting towards your friend.
I can't tell you what to do because I don't know your boyfriend or your current relationship with him. Use your best judgement.
xxIndia
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reader, dollparts  +, writes (14 March 2007):
 you should do what feels right you know? choose the one that you truly love
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reader, AskEve +, writes (14 March 2007):
 You know I laughed when I read what you wrote... "he's perfect but we don't have much in common!" You need to end this relationship or you'll only start to resent your boyfriend, you'll look at him and think why can he not be more like (friend's name). You obviously have much more in common with this other guy and he feels the same way. I think your relationship has run its course and you're staying with him out of habit more than anything else.
Do the right thing and let him go!
Eve
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