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"My kids dad died 5 years ago but I can't stop thinking on his friend"

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Question - (18 May 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 May 2010)
A female Ireland age 36-40, *oseslillies writes:

Hi I m 24 year old single mom, my kids dad died 5 year ago n when this happened his close friend was there to pick up the pieces, even tho we hadn't spoke much before. we grew extremely close, he brought me out to dinner,took me places, introduced me to his family and friends. this went on for 2 years, he took me to a wedding one night and at the end of the night, we had a moment and almost kissed but didn't and never spoke of it since. he moved away shortly after for 3 years, and unexpectedly i bumped into him Sunday and hes as gorgeous as ever. he was very happy to see me and gave me loads of compliments, and a big hug going. he rang that night at 11pm looking to call up and say hi, but i freaked out n said i was in bed... so i asked him if he would like to meet up Sunday, he said yeah he definitely would.i could never tell him how i truly feel in case he didn't feel the same. I m a very pretty girl, and we always had our flirty times. i just need some advice, i cant stop thinking bout him....

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (19 May 2010):

Danielepew agony auntGood luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010):

Met up Sunday and see how it goes. You don't have to tell him how you feel. Maybe could invite him round for a meal or take away, watch a dvd. Good luck

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A female reader, sunnycomet Canada +, writes (19 May 2010):

sunnycomet agony auntWell if you feel this way about him I would suggest to try dating him and see how that goes.

Good Luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2010):

Hi 24 year old single mom. It appears to me that you must have become a widow at the age of 19. That is a young age to raise a child on your own, and it is also a tough time in your life when you are still trying to figure out just who you are.

You basically have two choices: do nothing, or tell him how you feel. It appears to me from your comments that he quite possibly is feeling the same way.

Quite often relationships like this can work, as you both have a common bond of affection. However, you will need to be strong as not all involved will agree with your decisions. So whatever your choice you should move slow and make sure that this is a long time commitment and not misplaced feelings for your old love. Best of wishes.

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