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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hey :) I was just thinking about all the diffrent types of sexual fantasies there are. I was wondering if any one prefers there partner to have a certain one? (if there is would you mind saying what it is)like one you love hearing about from your partner but its not really your personal fantasy it just turns you on. I was wondering cause i want to think of diffrint types of sexual stuff that could possibly be a new turn on to me or my boyfriend. Also cause i only have one fantasy im pretty sure he does to and its the same one as me, so i want to be open minded and explore talking about diffrint ones. Thanks for any ideas. Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, chigirl +, writes (19 May 2010):
You can't make up fantasies. Either you have them or you dont. And the same fantasy that turns one person on can totally turn off others. It is risky to "invent" a fantasy just to please someone and then find that they dislike this fantasy. And as everyone is different, there really aren't any safe zones.
If you think your sex life is boring and want to experiment, try reading up on different fetishes or positions.
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