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writes:How can I find out what do people REALLY think of me???This is really a huge secret, what sometimes we don't find out even before we die,Or never. Not even from your family...Did you ever hear this things, when someone has a nick name,behinde his'her back, but she never heard it herself?I think it is so scarry, because sure , you can think of something about yourself, and it is true it is very important, for your own solid self- image, but it's still don't help you to know, if others really thinks, that you have a good taste in fashion, or you are smart, or a good mother, or pretty,or a talented singer. Unfotunatly, our society is based on fake, so even in preschool, you start learning the telling the truth can hurt.I think, many people would tell you ,taht you look good, even if you look like a clown. I think,its almost easier for them to say this ,when you look bad.I noticed, fat woman gets complemnts from pretty woman, because they can't say it to someone who is pretty like them. I think, its kind of a cruel situation,as you never really can guess your public image.Am I seeing this right? Reply to this Question
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (14 August 2009):
 You have a point theres no way to really kno how some one feels about you unless they tell you or you hear them mean ts just one of those things n life fck what people thnk about you just live your life
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