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I would like to give my girl oral but not sure how to do it?

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Question - (8 August 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 12 August 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi there. I'm an 18 year old guy and i'm in a serious relationship. Me and my girlfriend are really comfortable with sex and foreplay, but there is one thing i am a bit unsure about.

My girlfriend gives me amazing blowjobs and handjobs all the time. As far as i know she really enjoys teasing me and making me explode, but i want to return the favour by giving her oral sex. However, i'm not really sure how to go about it. I've tried once before, starting by kissing and touching, slowly making my way down her body until i reached the destination, but i then found myself stuck. I didn't know whether she wanted me to and i didnt know how to do it. Are there any girls with tips on what makes good oral sex? I know every girl is different but there must be some general tips you can help me with.

Thanks for taking the time to read this and i hope you can help this guy in need!!! :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008):

first of all you should ask your girlfrind what she would like you to do!other wise she might pretend she is liking it to keep you happy. or try fingering her and licking her clit at the same time. first slowly then go abit faster and faster. but you should really talk to her. i didnt know how to give a blow job so i asked my bf and he told me how he likes it. best to be open.

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A male reader, ask sweeney :) United Kingdom +, writes (11 August 2008):

ask sweeney :) agony auntthis is gonna sound very " up front " but you asked the question lol, jst use ur tounge there at first then giv it a minit or two and put ur hole mouth str8 onto it and use ur tounge with your mouth pushing dwn on her "privates" lol thats my advice dude sorry about how blunt i put it but you asked the question lol

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A female reader, Tii3RN3Ybbs. United Kingdom +, writes (8 August 2008):

Tii3RN3Ybbs. agony auntHey There,

Hmm thats unusual for guys not knowing how to do it (:

Well if she didn't want you to do it, she would have pushed you away and said no.

There are some really good websites that tell you how to do it, and what girls get really turned on by..

All u gotta do, is Tease her a little bit.

Andd just slip ur fingers down there,

it might be weird at first time,

but you willl soon get use to it,

hope this helps x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for the links, they really help. I'll be sure to put this new knowledge to good use next time i see her.

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A female reader, PsyCookie United States +, writes (8 August 2008):

PsyCookie agony auntRead this website:

http://www.ehow.com/how_1000251_give-oral-sex.html

They give you tips on how to perform good oral sex.

and this one:

http://www.askmen.com/love/player/28_love_games.html

It gives you a good pep-talk along with tips for oral sex.

If she didn't want you to do oral sex on her, she would stop you before anything. A great tip is to touch her clitoris with your tongue (find the clitoris first if you don't know where it is) and kiss her labia lips with you mouth. Kiss her labia lips first to warm her up and then advance to her clit. While you're performing there, move your tongue in circles and BE GENTLE at first. If she tells you to go harder, just do so.

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