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writes:my girlfriend thinks i'm cheating because she wants me to stop another female friend of mine from calling but i said no. How do i convince her i'm not cheating? Reply to this Question
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reader, lovejunkie  +, writes (17 October 2007):
 Why are you so set on letting another woman come between what you and your g/f have together? And what makes you so sure your so-called female friend isn't trying to cause interference by calling you when she knows you're in a committed relationship? Don't be so naive. If you don't want you g/f to feel like you're cheating, you need to stop being so available to this female friend. Where there's smoke, there's fire.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): Easy, agree to get the female friend to stop calling you.
If she is a friend and nothing more she will totally understand and support your decision to stop upsetting your girlfriend - at least until your girlfriend feels part of your friendship too.
If your girlfriend is important to you, include her in your communications and get togethers with this female friend. She is jealous and most girlfriends would be.
She is allowed to be jealous - she's supposed to be your female companion!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): It depends on how often your friend calls you. If it is often then ask your friend to call a bit less. I can understand your gf for feeling this way. It can often feel threatening to have another female getting in touch with your bloke so often. But there again you are entitled to keep in touch with friends, both male and female, but not 24/7! She does deserve to be heard - so listen to her.
take care
xx
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female
reader, chrissy32789  +, writes (17 October 2007):
 Just tell your girlfriend me and this other girl is just friends there is nothing going on between us, and maybe have your girlfriend meet your friend and you all hang out and be all over your girlfriend infront of your friend that way your girlfriend knows that you are not hidding her from your friend.. Then maybe things will work out and she will stop thinking your cheating on her!
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