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reader, AusGuy  +, writes (7 April 2014):
 This post may be old and I hope you have found your answers.
But as many people have said, do it like anyone normally would.
Experiment and learn from your mistakes and your victories.
I hope you are happy.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (9 January 2009):
 Aech135 says: "...I think he's just having issues finding a position that works for them. Chill out stop attacking the guy and help him find positions that would help him enjoy the sex with his girl." No one is attacking him, he has never HAD sex with his girlfriend and was just wondering if her being a BBW would be a problem. What I've said in a word is NO!
~Eve~
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (9 January 2009):
 In response to "Aech135" and with advice to the poster, like I said, any position is fine. No special considerations are needed unless the woman is exceptionally obese.
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reader, Aech135 +, writes (9 January 2009):
 This is focused at the people insulting this poor guy. unless i'm misreading his question he isn't saying he wants her to change or treats her differently i think he's just having issues finding a position that works for them. chill out stop attacking the guy and help him find positions that would help him enjoy the sex with his girl. If he's not asking for help and is instead saying how can he have sex with her when she's that size then i apologize but i don't think that's what he meant.
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reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (9 January 2009):
 The same way you would if she wasnt a bbw she has the same thing just a little more to love your blanket in the winter your shade in the summer size has nothing to do with how you have sex with your girlfriend .She is still a woman .Just let her know that her size doesnt bother you by not dwelling on HOW to Do It Just start with foreplay and all else should come natural ......
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (8 January 2009):
Kudos to "AskEve" - any position is fine with a big woman, including woman-on-top. Based on some recent experience with one girlfriend, you may not feel that you are penetrating quite as deeply, but if it makes her happy, why worry? PS - I'm about 150 pounds and 5'7" - she well over 200. Enjoy!
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reader, AskEve +, writes (8 January 2009):
Shame on you Flynn!!! Bigger women can be terrific lovers on top OR underneath! Why should he get her to slim down? He told you he absolutely adores her. Treat her like any other woman poster and just have fun. (Remember to use protection though - winks).
~Eve~
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2009): Try and avoid the 'Woman On Top' position at all costs. With a larger woman this is not a wise place to visit.And then start getting her to slim down a bit by going exercising together and eating right... its the only way.Flynn 24
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (8 January 2009):
Run her down with a lassoe...
How is having sex with her going to be different to any other woman?????
I think you have a problem with her that you are either not telling us or you haven't realised.
Being fat doesn't make her a different speicies.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2009): You have sex with her the same way you would have sex with any other woman. You think the extra pounds that plus size women carry make sex with us somehow that vastly different? Or I am not getting your question?
To the previous poster... BBW means Big Beautiful Woman.
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reader, spudgun +, writes (8 January 2009):
whats a bbw?
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