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writes:It always atarts off that we have fool around really wild and dirty, then she wants me to eat her out, she comes, and afterwards, she won't get me off; she's suddenly "too tired," or if she "tries" she will complain about how tired she is, how much work it is, or something equally bitchy and asinine that turns me off so much I can't get off. This has absolutely ruined sex for me.How can I make her want to get me off with the same enthusiasm I have for her? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): For some people once they have cum they lose their desire and then don't feel like doing anything else. She needs to realise this and like others have suggested get you off first then her so everyone can be happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): Have her do you first- no love for her until your done... simple...
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (14 December 2009):
Uuuhhmm...looks like you shouldn't have the relationship anymore. If talking about something that she's being totally unreasonable about is enough to end a relationship over, then yeah...she's definitely not a keeper, but a waste of time.
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reader, Garm +, writes (14 December 2009):
Garm is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe says that I just need to wait until she's not tired so she can focus--but she's always tired. When I proposed that her and my non-reciprocal arrangement seemed unfair she accused me of being sexually obsessed and said that if we had to even talk about it ever again she didn't want this relationship anymore.
Now what?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (13 December 2009):
She may be shy, or she has had bad experience. Or she may just be not that into you. Either way, you really need to talk to her and say that you feel unappreciated and taken for granted. Ask her why she feels the way she does, and warn her that it is jeopardizing your relationship. Just be honest with her. If after that there is no change, maybe you need to consider whether you want to be with her.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (13 December 2009):
Maybe I'm being too nosey, but is this the same girl that you were trying to "win back" or is this a different girl? Just curious because if it's your ex that you wanted back, I think you can refer to that thread as to why she's such a selfish person.
If this is a new girl though, just don't give her an orgasmn first everytime. Contrary to popular belief, women do also get a little tired and obviously aren't "in the mood" anymore after an orgasm. I can actually be the same way as her, which is why I try to hold off because then I just lose interest afterward.
I think you should talk to her about it first and perhaps try to climax at the same time or take turns. Come to a common agreement because it's not really fair when only one of you is getting satisfied in bed.
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