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writes: My girlfriend has changed to the extent that she didn't call for a while now. When I ring her phone she will remain silent on phone, deny my audience time without number. This is bothering my mind. What should i do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, fishdish +, writes (12 June 2011):
I would say for whatever reason you're broken up and she's too much of a coward to actually tell you, but why don't you go see her at her house to confirm?
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (12 June 2011):
If she doesn't want to speak to you then there is no hope for a relationship. Try to see her in person and stand up for yourself. Ignoring someone for no reason (as you make it seem) is not acceptable behavior in a relationship.
Think of it this way maybe "She doesn't want to talk to me? Good, now I can find someone else to talk to."
More often than not when people change they can't or won't ever change back to who you want them to be. Alas, though, people change all the same. If she has changed to the point where you two are no longer compatible then you should let the relationship go. I'm really sorry for you having to deal with this, being ignored is very painful. Best of luck to you.
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reader, janna03 +, writes (12 June 2011):
ask her directly whats wrong, thats the only thing u can do, maybe she has a problem, or maybe she is inlove with someone else. coz a person cant change feelings in a blink of an eye unless that feeling goes to someone else :)
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