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writes:Do you think he really wants to meet me or not? I met a guy in a bar recently, and he said he is going out later with his friend, and he said he would see me later if i am out, but he hasn't told me where he is going (i am assuming he is going to the place where we met again) and he hasn't said what time. He sent the message on facebook today. I texted him last night, to ask if he was still going out, and asked what time, as he had said earlier in the week that he would meet me today. He didn't text me back though, he just left the message on facebook. Do you think i should write to him on facebook, text him or call him? Or should i leave it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2011): Definitely just leave it. I had the same thing happen to me yet he was the one that initiated the date in the first place only to ignore my messages leading up to the date.
This is a big sign he is not interested. I don't know why they do this, maybe they like the chase, but yeah its pretty rude and cowardish in my opinion.
I wouldn't even contact him again I would let him persue me if he was that interested.
If he suggests a date again, don't read too much into it until he starts actively making plans, like arranging a time and day, other than that he's all talk no action and not really worth bothering about.
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (12 June 2011):
 Well, sorry to say but he's probably not all that interested. If he was, he would have let you know where he wanted to meet you and when.
You sent him a text last evening, and haven't heard back from him. Unless he replies to your text, I think you'd do better to just let it go.
Maybe a bit disappointing, but look at it this way: if you haven't gone on a date with him yet, what, really, have you lost?
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